First and foremost, he will treat you,
and your family and friends with respect and curtesy. He will protect
you like Kitty protects Boo. Then he will take you to the altar of
marital bliss, to put a ring on your finger and make you his. That
way he will have that peace of mind when he is out there minding his
own business: he will know he can always come home to his sweetheart
he vows to love through sickness and health.
With that peace of mind, of course as a
man, he will have his own pursuits but he knows what truly matters.
No matter how busy he is he will make sweet sweet love to you,
whispering in your ears how lucky he feels, which is a lot easier
because you two are already living together. Yet he will still write
you love letters every now and then, even if you two are already
living together. And you will never complain having too little of him
especially because you two are already living together.
He will derive pleasure from his
career, but even more pleasure when he takes you to the roof of the
world, to get altitude sickness and short of breath together, or when
he goes with you to Europe to see white people that still look nice
when they are rude, or when he goes on African safaris with you, to
dance with cannibals, and track down prairie dogs and wild bunnies
for dinner.
He may sometimes feel confused about
you, but he will never raise his voice with you, because he is mature
enough to know that shouting won't dispel that confusion. Even when
he feels wronged by you he won't say anything to hurt you. Because he
loves you more than he loves his pride. Instead, he will endeavor to
solve the mysteries of you, the way he peals an onion: he will be
patiently peeling one layer at a time, and sometimes he cries.
He will listen to your life and he will
share with you his. He may not be so much of a talker but he will
definitely be a listener, making mental notes of every single detail
that goes out of your mouth. He will remember what you said because
of your cute bitchy voice: he is going to remember your birthday and
your first working day, your favorite Tsingtao beer and your favorite
movies - or some handsome actors therein.
Damn, he is going to treat you so well
that he will make me look bad. The birthday card you made for me
becomes a painful reminder of how I dug my own way to hell: Every day
I'm zombie walking cos' I'm already dead inside. Our homeland has
been torn in half, like the morning after a tornado sleeps with a
volcano. Everything is being rebuilt, but it's a work-in-process
that't been indefinitely paused. Our relationship weathered
thunderstorms after thunderstorms, but frustratingly, the learning
curve never seems to end. Every time I promised it would be the last
time, even though we both knew it was a lie. I harvested what I
sowed: being alone, again, on a Valentine's Day.
He is the future me.
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